Monday Blues

Monday hari tu, mami dah masuk kerja. 1st day at work after long holiday. New office means new boss, new colleagues, new subordinates, new environment, new task. Ramai bosses yang cuti today sebab last week they had two big events. Still haven't get my parking lot yet. Early morning had to menapak naik bukit and became all sweat. They are making some office arrangement so i haven't get my room yet. Maknanya, i cannot start to decorate my room yet and have to keep those books and files in the car for a moment la. Nasib baik tadi i tak bawak cushions, flowers and frames lagi. Kalau tak, buat penat je.

One good thing was...

I had my own sweet time. I got myself the 5th and 6th Ratu hijab wear. They had been moved to Bangi Gateway. What do i like about Ratu pieces? Its fabric material. Cotton shawl tak banyak design tapi it is exclusive. Kadang bila kita pergi kedai A dan kedai B we can just simply jumpa design, corak and material yang sama. Pergi kedai C pun ada yang sama. But it wont happen here. Setakat ini cotton shawl yang i beli dari Ratu belum lagi i nampak di kedai lain. Tadi cadang nak beli shawl tapi wide shawl tak ada stock. Then i bought two ninja inners. Soft cotton, tak ketat, colour banyak pilihan and yang penting, tepinya panjang sampai ke bawah tulang pipi.

Last time i ada bagitau i beli shawl @sugarscarf. Tapi tak pandai nak lilit. Satin awning pulak pendek sikit di tepi and kesian me for having round face. Itu tak boleh ini tak boleh. Bila tengok fillanie pakai cantik je. Elok je terletak di kepala dia. Muka dia bujur sirih sebab tu cantik. Awning tu tirus je kat dahi dia. Dia pula petite lady, lilit sepuluh kali pun still she got enough coverage. Tapi i pakai jadi macam ni.

Terpaksa loose kan kat depan nak bagi drapey. Masih tak confident nak pakai pergi kenduri ke pergi office ke. Nampak fragile dan hanya sesuai untuk orang yang lembut-lembut yang tak lasak. I pakai ni sure asyik nak betulkan je nanti.

Ok, habis bab tudung. Yang ni i nak cerita jugak. Walaupun tak ada kaitan dengan tudung. Monday tu i met my school mate, Lin and we had a serious girls' talk. She has not married yet and being single at her age, she could do lot of things. Dengan part time studies, berniaga kecil-kecilan, and will have her own hijab brand soon.

Katanya at this age dia akan lebih berjaga-jaga bila berkawan dengan lelaki especially dengan married men. She takut terbagi wrong signal. We have a few single friends yang dah ada serious relationship dengan married men. We cerita-cerita buat pedoman, bukan gossip ye. Kalau dulu masa budak-budak mungkin kawan begini dah kita bagi warning. Tapi sekarang, up to you laaa friend. Masing-masing dah matured, boleh fikir baik buruk. Kita as kawan ni, doakan Allah bagi yang terbaik buat dia.

For me, nak berkawan dengan suami orang ke, isteri orang ke, biarlah berbatas. Tak sesuai nak bertepuk tampar dengan suami/isteri orang walaupun kita kenal dia lebih lama dari wife/hubby dia kenal dia. Berkawanlah dengan bermaruah. Bermaruah pada isterinya/suaminya, bermaruah pada anak-anaknya, bermaruah pada diri sendiri.

Rasa tak best la nak cerita panjang-panjang bab ni.